Do You Love Your Blog?
Rhett told me I should write something from the heart instead of the tutorial type of posts that I usually write. With that in mind I thought I would talk about some wisdom that my father gave me many years ago. Like most wisdom fathers impart many of them don’t make much sense until you are a father yourself, although I think this one has always made sense to me.
My father was a carpenter. He spent 35 plus years working for the Saskatchewan Wheat Pool building elevators. He started on a construction crew when he was a teenager and eventually he became foreman. By the time I came around he was working in the Head Office and was responsible for overseeing the repair and construction crews for a large portion of Saskatchewan. He was a hard worker and was good at his job but I really don’t think he liked his job.
When I was a teenager I got a job at the local grocery story as a bagger. I worked hard and was given the occasional raise in pay, but I never really liked my job. I did it and I was good at it, but I hated going to work and I could not wait for my shift to end so I could do the things that I wanted to do. It was near the end of that summer when I was trying to decide if I should quit my job or keep it while I was at school. I think my father knew that I hated that job, and he told me that life was to short to do something that you did not like doing. If you love what you do then it is not work.
Do you love your blog? Is blogging a chore for you or is it something you love to do? Building a successful blog will take work, but that work will not feel like work if your blog is something that you love to do. Blogging in many ways has become sanitized. Blogger A talks about a topic, blogger B then rehashes the same topic, and the cycle continues on. The way to make your blog stand out and be different from all the other blogs is to love your blog. If you love what you do your blog will not feel like work and you will not be able to wait to get back to writing on it day after day.
I don’t know if my father would be proud of me that I learned something from him or not, but I do now that his advice then has helped me to find the work that I enjoy. As a father I hope that I can teach my son to find things that he enjoys so his work is not just something he does to make a living but is something that he loves to do.
Comments
Debra
Good post Lee, thanks for sharing. I am sure that Dad would be proud that you took his advice and are doing what you love to do. I am going to take your advice and make sure that I Love My Blog, so it does not become a chore or hard work.
Lee Robertson
Thanks Sis.
Mirjam
first off, I am sure your dad is sproud to know you found something you love to do and be great at it. I think that is what all parents want for their children, happiness. As to you question, I do love to blog, but there certainly is a difference between the different blogs I run. My personal blog gets a lot more special attention, because I love building that one up. The special attention nourishes it, although I have no idea whether it will ever bring in any money in return, the things I am getting out of it is priceless to me though ;)
Lee Robertson
I like your blog. I visit it quite often. I post on several blogs, but the ones I post on the most are the ones I love the most. Unfortunately some are "work".
Rhett Soveran
See Lee (hehe rhyming) posts from the heart bring families together! :D
Jodith
I don't really *love* my blog, but I'm hoping that it will eventually allow me to do what I do love, and that is surfing around reading blogs and commenting on them *laughs*. See, what I'm doing right now, I love that, and the plus of it is, it helps drive traffic to by blog, so essentially, I'm working right now, doing something I love. And that must be one of the greatest run-on sentences known to humanity. I really need to go to bed.
Lee Robertson
Ha ha. I've never heard that rhyming thing before! Sarcasm is lost in writing.
Lee Robertson
Well we love it when people come here and comment so you can do what you love here whenever you like.
Felex Tan
I am improving on my writing skill,to be a problogger is not an easy ,but is not hard as we think,we can make it by putting more efforts.
Lee Robertson
There is no doubt hard work is required to make it as a blogger. If people love what they do that work will not feel like work but will be a joy to do. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.
inspirationbit
hopefully Rhett would convince you to write more often from your heart, Lee ;-) I don't know if i love my blog, I definitely like it a lot, and also I respect people who read it, that's why it takes several days for me to post there something - I don't like posting for the sake of posting, and like you mentioned, repeating what others write about.
Lee Robertson
Thanks Vivien. I think I actually have a love/hate relationship with my blogs but for the most part I enjoy doing it. Writing posts from "the heart" was harder than writing tutorial types of posts. I think I have to be in the right frame of mind to do it.
Debt Free Revolution
I do love my blog, and over the months it has become an extension of my ego online LOL It's my personal thoughts, opinions, and sometimes even feelings, put up in cyberspace for others to read and relate to/with/against.
Lee Robertson
Excellent! I saw your blog yesterday as I was browsing some Entrecard blogs. Glad you dropped by. I still find it hard to blog about personal things. Perhaps it is a generational thing. I know Rhett has no problem with his life online. I still hold somethings back.
Mamaflo
I'm retired so I have the time to travel around the blogshere and read all day but for those that work outside the home or work in an environment that doesn't allow them to go to blog sites, it has to be tough to find the time. I'm a newbie so I'm evolving the more I learn which is something else again, I'm constantly learning which makes me enjoy blogging even more.
Lee Robertson
That is fantastic! Good to know you are constantly learning! One of the things I enjoy about working on the Internet is the fact that I am always learning new things. Makes everyday interesting.
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